Build partnerships that work.

The science-backed one-day intensive for new couples to build a relationship that lasts & feels good for everyone.

AWESOME Former grad, COLLEEN–>

Build partnerships that work.

The science-backed one-day intensive for new couples to build a relationship that lasts & feels good for everyone.

 

YAY FOR YOU! love is amazing

AND FINDING A PARTNER IS THE FIRST STEP!

YAY FOR YOU! love is amazing!

AND FINDING A PARTNER IS THE FIRST STEP!

However, it is only the first step & doesn't guarantee success or longevity of a relationship...

However, it is only the first step & doesn't guarantee success or longevity of a relationship...

what does determine the success of a relationship?

UNDERSTANDING what healthy relationships feel & look Like

HAVING THE Skills & mindsets to work through CONFLICT & problems

GETTING ON THE SAME PAGE of relationship goals & styles

And guess what? We were taught NONE of those things. Not one.

But you can learn them now & build relationships that actually feel good & work for everyone involved.

And guess what? We were taught NONE of those things. Not one.

But you can learn them now & build relationships that actually feel good & work for everyone involved.

Hi! I'm Kira, & I teach people how to date smarter to get amazing relationships.

A few things about me…

I get you because I was you

In addition to having coached singles all the way from San Diego to Singapore since 2008 (plus being a positive psychology practitioner & professional certified coach to boot!), I am also well-versed in the not-so-fabulous art of being really fucking single.

When I was actually dating (if we could call it that), the moment I caught feelings I would bend myself into a pretzel just hoping that if I became what I thought they wanted they would love me and stay FOOORRREEEEVVVERRRRR!!! Spoiler alert. They didn’t. 😂

After my Dad got sick in 2014, it woke me up that the only person who was going to change my relationship status, was me.  

So I stopped doing all the weird shit that women are  told we should do, and put everything I had researched into practice. 

Later that year, I met my incredible husband, Danny, at 41 years old, in my hometown of less than 5,000 & at my heaviest weight. 

And now I teach singles & new couples how to date to create beautiful partnerships that actually work.

Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018👇
Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018--->

I get you because I was you

In addition to having coached singles all the way from San Diego to Singapore since 2008 (plus being a positive psychology practitioner & professional certified coach to boot!), I am also well-versed in the not-so-fabulous art of being really fucking single.

When I was actually dating (if we could call it that), the moment I caught feelings I would bend myself into a pretzel just hoping that if I became what I thought they wanted they would love me and stay FOOORRREEEEVVVERRRRR!!! Spoiler alert. They didn’t. 😂

After my Dad got sick in 2014, it woke me up that the only person who was going to change my relationship status, was me.  

So I stopped doing all the weird shit that women are  told we should do, and put everything I had researched into practice. 

Later that year, I met my incredible husband, Danny, at 41 years old, in my hometown of less than 5,000 & at my heaviest weight. 

And now I teach singles & new couples how to date to create beautiful partnerships that actually work.

Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018👇
Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018--->
SUCCESS STORIES

"This is the best decision I made for myself!"

"I remember our first call not long ago! Well, I'm officially in a relationship and so far he is everything I learned from this work. I'm just amazed that they are men who have a great mindset. I didn't know how to spot them before."
REINA, IL

Welcome to the Reinventing Dating New Couple Intensive

Healthy relationship knowledge, skills, & mindsets
that build love every day for couples.

Welcome to the Reinventing Dating New Couple Intensive

Healthy relationship knowledge, skills, & mindsets
that build love every day for couples.

Fast Facts

WHO IS THIS FOR?

Any couples (women, men, straight, or queer) over the age of 21.

Day intensives are great for couples who:

  • Enjoy the focus of 1:1 work. You get my full-attention for the day.
  • Like to get shit done & enjoy short, impactful, intensive learning.
  • Don’t like to work over a long period of time & enjoy fast results.

It is not for:

  • People who like group work or to work in community.
  • People who like to work on their own or at their own pace. 
  • Like to learn over a longer period of time.
WHAT IS THIS?

Intensive Basics:

  • A full-day (5 hours) digging into one topic with Kira 1:1. Topics are below.
  • A personalized printable action plan with bite size steps to apply what you learned for real change & growth in your relationship.
  • 30 days of support from Kira after our day together (over Voxer) to ask questions & get feedback from our time together.
  • Welcome gift in the mail to make the most of our time together.
HOW DOES IT WORK?

Today: You scroll down & pick your topic, day, & make your payment to hold your spot. 

Two weeks before: You will receive your pre-work & portal access.  You will also get your welcome gift in the mail.

Your Intensive Day: We meet for 5 hours. 2 1/2 hours in the morning, 30 minute lunch, & 2 1/2 hours in the afternoon. 

Day after Intensive: 30 days of support from Kira as you implement what you learned in small, bite-sized pieces.

7 Days after Intensive: You will receive your personalized action plan that is customized to the both of you & what we discussed/learned.

WHEN IS IT?

RD Couple Intensives are available multiple times a month on Tuesday, Thursdays, Saturdays, & Sundays.  Usually from 11 am EST – 4:30 pm EST.

You just pick the day that works with your schedule. 

WHERE IS IT?

Our intensive is all done virtually online on the zoom app.  

 

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, NADINE👇

What to expect from our time together:

What to expect from our time together:

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, NADINE—>

Who this is for:

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, BROOKE —>

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, BROOKE 👇

Who this is for:

OPTION 1:
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP BASICS

Let’s make sure we’re all talking the same language & understand what love & healthy relationships are, what to expect, & how to keep love going.

You will learn:

  • What Love Actually is (and what you’re confusing it with) so you know how to keep it going!
  • Anatomy of Modern Relationships (what you need, important stages & timelines. )
  • Needs vs Wants in Relationships so you know what is fair to ask for and to expect.
  • Healthy mindsets for love to go in open-minded & open-hearted.
  • Attachment Styles 101:  So you can watch for when they flare up & move through it.
  • Relationship styles & goals 

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, KELLY—>

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, KELLY 👆

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, DIANE 👆

OPTION 2:
Skills for healthy relationship

Learn how to work together through the goods, the tough times, & the in-betweens.

You will learn:

  • Setting Boundaries in a Relationship for best connection & success.
  • How to have Tough Conversations where everyone feels heard & seen. With templates!
  • Check-in convo templates so everyone feels safe.
  • Learn how to collaborate in tough situations – instead of compromise.
  • Setting up a Couple’s Agreement to get on the same page & have everyone feel LOVED! That’s the point!

<—-AWESOME FORMER GRAD, DIANE

1. CHOOSE YOUR OPTION & DAY

Scroll down to pick our day together.  

There are many dates available each month into 2024.

I do intensives on Tuesdays, Thursdays, Saturdays, & Sundays from 11 am et – 4:30 pm.  

After you sign-up, you will get an official welcome email with first steps.

2. PRE-WORK & PORTAL ACCESS

At two weeks out from our Intensive Day, you will get access to your private portal & the pre-work.  

These will be done before our call on your own.  Please set aside 2-3 hours for this work. Some of the homework is individual & some will be done together. 

This gets us the foundational knowledge for you to get the most out of this experience.

3. WATCH FOR Welcome Gift

A few days before our call, you’ll receive a welcome gift box in the mail. 

You will receive a fun welcome package full of gifts to support you on our day. From setting up your space to a craft you can do together to process the session.

4. OUR INTENSIVE DAY ARRIVES

Each intensive is is 5 hours. 2 1/2 hours in the morning a 30 minute lunch break and then 2 1/2 hours in the afternoon.

We all will walk through each topic, working through questions & activities. It’s a hybrid of in-real-time-learning, coaching questions, & activities to learn, apply, AND practice.

Plus these awesome bonuses

1

3 months of Reinventing Dating Podcast Membership

*Full access to the podcast library (over 300 episodes)

*Monthly bonus episode

*Opportunity to submit questions for Q and A episodes

*Weigh in on upcoming topics, series, & movies for Ruining Rom-coms

*Private group with regular access to Kira.

2

DISCOUNTS TO FUTURE COACHING, & RETREATS.

My clients mean the world to me & after you’ve worked with me you are on my grad list. The grad list regularly is offered private events & retreats, discounted programs, & my sweary voice stuck in their brains (in a good way) FOREVER!😂

 

3

RIDICULOUSLY FUN & CONNECTING DATE NIGHT IDEAS.

Don’t get stuck in Netflix ruts because it feels easier than actually getting to know each other.

This easy printable pdf has a challenge, a scavenger hunt, & helpful resources on ways to meet new people.

SUCCESS STORY

"This work will change every facet of your life"

“This work will change every facet of your life – yes, it will change your romantic relationships but it will change how you show up in every relationship….for the better.”
Amanda, PA

what past participants are saying...

what past participants are saying...

HERE’S WHAT’S INCLUDED IN YOUR DAY INTENSIVE

A FULL DAY 1:1 WITH KIRA

The both of you + me for 5 hours digging into the topic of your choice.

WELCOME GIFT

Of awesome prezzies sent in the mail the week before our intensives.

PRIVATE PORTAL

To access all the work before, during, & after our intensive.

30 DAYS OF SUPPORT

From Kira to ask questions &  get helpful & thoughtful feedback.

CUSTOMIZED ACTION PLAN

Made just for you with next steps and an action plan to apply all you learned.

LIFE-CHANGING RESULTS

You will walk away smarter, more excited, & ready to take your relationship to the next level.

<—AWESOME FORMER GRAD, KAYLA

let’s build you a relationship that lasts.

RD COUPLES INTENSIVE
CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE IN A DAY!
$1999.99
$ 999
00
  • 5 HOURS OF 1:1 COACHING
  • SCIENCE-BACKED & EMPOWERING INFORMATION
  • WELCOME GIFT & COUPLES CRAFT
  • 30 DAYS OF SUPPORT FOR QUESTIONS, CLARIFICATIONS, & STRATEGY
  • AWESOME BONUSES FOR AFTER OUR INTENSIVE
  • LIFE-CHANGING RESULTS

 


Have a question? 

Text me at 608-720-4099 & I’ll get back
to you within 24 hours.

“Wait, I Have a Question!”

You’re in luck: Answers are my specialty.
Here are some of the most common questions I get asked about the program

All sales are final and non-refundable.  I stand behind this work & price 1000000%.  

I think it important to commit mentally and financially to a program or you will never do it.  I want people who are committing to this process.   

If for any reason your life blows up and you can’t make the date, reach out to Kira and we will figure something out. I’m not a dick.

This program is for couples, straight or queer who wants to do the work towards a healthy & happy partnership.  You need to be 21 and over.

If you can join me between 10 am EST – 6 pm EST, we can make it work

Most things are workable.

You don’t need anything too special. You will just need access to a computer that has a camera with decent internet connection for our video calls.  You will want to be together during the intensive.

Listen, looking at things from a new or different perspective can feel scary. Sometimes we have been holding on to unhelpful beliefs & mindsets are whole lives, that’s what we know!

Plus, getting real with ourselves and vulnerable with others can feel super scary!  

But let me tell you this.  Amazing relationships NEED vulnerability, healthy mindsets, & skills to work properly. Why not learn how to express yourself in a way that can be heard & received.

 

Don’t take my word for it! (anyone get that Reading Rainbow reference?)

Go take a look at all of my success stories here.

But if you show up & do the work…it will absolutely help.

HAVE MORE QUESTIONS?
Email Kira at kira@reinventingdating  or text her at 608-720-4099. 

That’s my real number!

I will answer in within 24 hours!
WANT TO keep up with rd?

Join the RD newsletter.

I only send interesting and relevant emails. I don’t even know how to sell your emails.  Who does that?

© 2024 · Reinventing Dating · All rights reserved.

come check out MY monthly workshop

THIRD SATURDAY of
every month!