CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE IN FOUR WEEKENDS.

Welcome to the best science-backed online program for single women to get in relationships
you actually want.

REINVENTING DATING GROUP INTENSIVE

The science-backed group day & weekend intensives to learn the basic skills & mindset on dating & get in relationship you actually want.

AWESOME Former grad, KAYLA —>

In Reinventing Dating group intensives you will learn

ANATOMY OF MODERN PARTNERSHIPS

Stop wasting your time swiping & texting hoping that the next random person will be “the one”. We can do better than that for your LIFE PARTNER! Stack the deck in your favor by learning who you’re attracted to & why, how your attachment style plays a role, who is a good match for you & how to spot them in real life.

date smarter & with confidence

It’s amazing how much easier dating can feel when you have a plan! Using my proven healthy dating timelines, mindsets, safety tips, scripts, questions, after-date assessments, & more, it makes it a ton easier to date with confidence & to not get stuck where you shouldn’t be.

CREATE relationships you actually want

What’s the point of having a relationship if it’s mediocre at best or even terrible. That’s lonelier than being single. Learn how to build a partnership from day one that is full of trust, respect, honesty, & joy where BOTH of you feel loved every single day. That’s the whole point.

We all want love.
But NO ONE wants to date to get it.

BECAUSE YOU & I BOTH KNOW, DATING KINDA SUCKS.

Is modern dating even worth it?

But it's even rougher if we struggle with:

Is modern dating even worth it?

Healthy relationships & love can absolutely change your life.

BUT The keyword here is “Healthy” & most of us have no idea how to date & create a healthy relationship.

BUT The keyword here is “Healthy” & most of us have no idea how to date & create a healthy relationship.

Hi! I'm Kira, & I teach people how to date smarter to get amazing relationships.

A few things about me…

But I do, because I was you

In addition to having coached singles all the way from San Diego to Singapore since 2007 (plus being a positive psychology practitioner & professional certified coach to boot!), I am also well-versed in the not-so-fabulous art of being really fucking single.

When I was actually dating (if we could call it that), the moment I caught feelings I would bend myself into a pretzel just hoping that if I became what I thought they wanted they would love me and stay FOOORRREEEEVVVERRRRR!!! Spoiler alert. They didn’t. 😂

After my Dad got sick in 2014, it woke me up that the only person who was going to change my relationship status, was me.  

So I stopped doing all the weird shit that women are  told we should do, and put everything I had researched into practice.  Later that year, I met my incredible husband, Danny, even though I was 41 years old, in my hometown of less than 5,000 & at my heaviest weight. 

Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018👇
Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018--->

But I do, because I was you

In addition to having coached singles all the way from San Diego to Singapore since 2007 (plus being a positive psychology practitioner & professional certified coach to boot!), I am also well-versed in the not-so-fabulous art of being really fucking single.

When I was actually dating (if we could call it that), the moment I caught feelings I would bend myself into a pretzel just hoping that if I became what I thought they wanted they would love me and stay FOOORRREEEEVVVERRRRR!!! Spoiler alert. They didn’t. 😂

After my Dad got sick in 2014, it woke me up that the only person who was going to change my relationship status, was me.  

So I stopped doing all the weird shit that women are  told we should do but sells our souls, and put everything I had researched into practice.  Later that year, I met my incredible husband, Danny, even though I was 41 years old, in my hometown of less than 5,000 & at my heaviest weight. 

Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018👇
Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018--->
SUCCESS STORIES

"Why didn't I do this sooner?"

"I think of all the YEARS I spent reading self-help articles, bitching to friends about my love life, and stumbling through the dating world on my own and I cringe, because in less than six months, Kira gave me all the life-changing tools I needed to build a healthy relationship."
Sara, OH

Welcome to the Reinventing Dating Group Weekend Intensive

Science-backed & empowering healthy dating knowledge, mindsets, & skills taught in small group form, virtually over a weekend.

Welcome to the Reinventing Dating Program

The most comprehensive online group program for single women to learn the mindsets & skills to date with intention & confidence.


Fast Facts

WHO IS THIS FOR?

Any person over the age of 21.

Group Day Intensives are great for people who:

  • Like to learn with others & in community.
  • Like to get shit done & enjoy short, impactful, intensive learning.
  • Don’t like to work over a long period of time & enjoy fast results.
  • Looking for a more affordable option.

It is not for:

  • People who are looking for individual attention & focus.
  • People who like to work on their own or at their own pace. 
  • Like to learn over a longer period of time.
  • People looking for personalized or customized info & feedback. (if you are go here)
WHAT IS THIS?

Intensive Basics:

  • 2 full-days (10 hours total) digging into one theme that helps you date & create better relationships. Intensive Topics are below.
  • Small group learning (my favorite) with groups up to 15. So you can still feel seen & heard.
  • 2 weeks of pre-work before in your private portal to get the most out of the weekend.
  • Takeaway printable workbook that goes along with your theme with cheat sheets, scripts, templates, & resources to APPLY everything we learned.
HOW DOES IT WORK?

Today: You scroll down & pick your topic, date, & make your payment to hold your spot. There is a calendar up to 6 months from now.

Two weeks before: You will receive your pre-work & portal access.  

Your Intensive Weekend: We meet for 5 hours each day (Sat & Sun). 2 1/2 hours in the morning, 30 minute lunch, & 2 1/2 hours in the afternoon. 

Within 5 Days after the  Intensive: You receive a video recording of the workshop, slide decks, & your printable takeaway workbook to help you apply everything you learned.

WHEN IS IT?

RD Group Intensives are available at least monthly or not more.

You just pick the date & topic that works with your schedule. 

WHERE IS IT?

Our intensive is all done virtually online on the zoom app.  You will be expected to be online & present for the workshop.

FEELING WORTHY OF HEALTHY LOVE
January 13 & 14th
11 AM - 4 pm EST

Over our lifetime after hurt & disappointment we can learn some unhelpful beliefs & mindsets that can keep us single. This weekend is ALL about rewiring our brain to feel confident & open to love.

  • Feeling worthy of healthy love & partners – practicing deep self-worth & self-compassion.
  • Work WITH your inner critic – so they are helping, not hurting.
  • Limiting Beliefs & Thinking Traps – that are holding you back and sabotaging you without you even knowing it.
  • Processing Emotions & Healthy Coping Skills – so you can keep yourself calm & making decisions out of love, not fear.

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, AMY—>

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, AMY👆

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, DIANE 👆

OPTION 2 - Who's a good match for you?
Sat & SUN 11-4:30 EST

How you learned to love, what you need, who's a good match for you, because it's different for everyone.

You will learn:

  • Who you are attracted to & why – plus what’s helping & what isn’t.
  • Your attachment style – how it shows up & how to date other attachment styles.
  • Clarifying what YOU are looking for, so you know how to spot it in real life.
  • Your Key Values and Strengths and what you bring to the relationship
  • Dealbreakers and Relationship Styles so you can spot a great match
  • Who should get power in your life & who shouldn’t.
  • Boundaries & when to share your story for best connection & success.

<—-AWESOME FORMER GRAD, DIANE

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, —>
OPTION 4: DATE LIKE YOU MEAN IT

Real & helpful resources to date with safety, authenticity & intention. Plus, be able to spot your person in real life!

You will learn:

  • How to spot emotionally unavailable people quickly & easily.
  • Great first dates with safety tips, smart first date questions, strategies & after date assessment.
  • Basic boundaries to set in early dating (with scripts!)
  • Full 3 month healthy dating walkthrough –  with thoughtful & helpful first dates ideas, questions, guidelines, scripts, strategies, sex timelines, & safety tips so you feel confident and ready!
  • Pre-date strategies and post-date assessments for intentional success.
  • How to have tough dating conversations (like Defining the Relationship & asking for what you need) with easy to use scripts.

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, HEATHER 👆

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, SARAH👆

OPTION 5 - Learn & Let go of your past relationship

Heartbreak's a bitch. 💔 It's even worse if we are left wondering "Was it me? Was it them? How do I do it differently moving forward?" I got you.

We will work on:

Past Relationship Assessment

  • what WAS your role & what WASN’T 
  • what you can start working on,
  • what to let go of & how

Coping & Self-soothing techniques for when you start to ruminate & to calm yourself.

Letting go of the past:

We will learn easy releasing techniques to 

We will look at Your Future Partner Picker & where it can be fixed for moving forward.

 

You will also get tons of support, kind feedback, warm fuzzies, mini moments of breathing, during the process. 

 

<—AWESOME FORMER GRAD, SARAH

1. CHOOSE YOUR TOPICS & DATE
FROM THE OPTIONS BELOW

I have day & 

There are multiple dates & topics 

I do intensives on Tuesdays, Thursdays, Saturdays, & Sundays from 11 am et – 4:30 pm.  

Pick one of the options/topics or bundle all three for the whole experience ( & a discount!)

After you sign-up, you will get an official welcome email with first steps.

2. PRE-WORK & PORTAL ACCESS

At two weeks out from our Intensive Day, you will get access to your private portal & the pre-work.  

These will be done before our call on your own.  Please set aside 2-3 hours for this work.

This gets us the foundational knowledge for you to get the most out of this experience.

3. WATCH FOR Welcome Gift

A few days before our call, you’ll receive a welcome gift box in the mail. 

You will receive a fun welcome package full of gifts to support you on our day. From setting up your space to a mindfulness craft for processing the day afterward.

4 Monthly Weekend Intensives

 

  • We learn the information, skills, & mindsets through LIVE fun interactive video workshops
  • We talk it out as a group in discussion times, 
  • We practice skills so we feel more comfortable in real life, 
  • At the end of the weekend, we will play a game show to solidify what you learned.

*ALL WORKSHOPS ARE RECORDED IF FOR ANY REASON YOU HAVE TO MISS ONE.

A Private Community for in between Intensives

To have access to Kira & the community in between our workshops.

Bring your questions, get extra resources, join the discussion & make the most of the experience.

Heads up: The community is in facebook. I don’t love facebook but it is the only place I can really get people to show up. Not a fb fan? I encourage you to create an account only for the course so you get to access the community & not everything else.

Action Steps & Real Life Application

Who cares what you learn if you never actually apply it? 

Which is why after every weekend intensive, you will be given mini challenges to apply what you learned over the month.

As the program progresses, we will have fun challenges, checklists, & scavenger hunts to practice skills & meet new people! In real life! Where love freakin’ exists!

Because information does not create transformation, application does.

Your Own Private Portal

Your Own Private Portal

Need to listen to the replay? 

Get bonus resources to learn more? 

Check out TV & Movie recommendations on the monthly topic?

I keep it super easy to be able to access all recordings, bonus workbooks, playlists, meditations, and more in your portal so you can find anything quickly & easy.

OPTIONAL: INTENSIVE UPGRADE PACKAGE

Welcome Gift!

Who doesn’t love getting prezzies in the mail? 

You will receive a fun welcome package full of gifts to support you in this process. 

 

SUCCESS STORY

"This work will change every facet of your life"

“This work will change every facet of your life – yes, it will change your romantic relationships but it will change how you show up in every relationship….for the better.”
Amanda, PA

what past participants are saying...

HERE’S WHAT’S INCLUDED WITH THE GROUP INTENSIVE

A 2-DAY GROUP WEEKEND INTENSIVES

Done live with Kira & a group up to 14 over the weekend.

11 am EST – 4 pm EST

PRIVATE PORTAL

To access all the work before, during, & after the program ends.

LIFE-CHANGING RESULTS

You will walk away smarter & more prepared than 99% of people dating.

INCREDIBLE COMMUNITY

Of other smart & kind people who are also working on themselves.

PRIVATE FB GROUP

A private group to stay connected with Kira & community

How to Join!

Step 1

Scroll down & choose the intensive you want.

STEP 2

On November 5th, you will get an email with all the info to get the most out of this experience.  Also watch for your package in the mail.

STEP 3

The program officially starts the weekend of  November 11 & 12, 2023. The call times are 11 am EST – 4:30 pm EST

How to Join!

Step 1

Scroll down & choose between a four month payment plan or pay in full for a nice discount. You will get an email immediately to confirm your spot.

STEP 2

On November 5th, you will get an email with all the info to get the most out of this experience.  Also watch for your package in the mail.

STEP 3

The program officially starts the weekend of  November 11 & 12, 2023. The call times are 11 am EST – 4:30 pm EST

let's get you
some love.

GRAB YOUR SPOT TODAY FOR:

Have a question? Text Kira at 608-720-4099 (that’s my real number)

“Wait, I Have a Question!”

You’re in luck: Answers are my specialty.
Here are some of the most common questions I get asked about the program

All sales are final and non-refundable.  I stand behind this program 1000000%.  I am going above and beyond to make this easy to stay motivated and finish. 

I think it important to commit mentally and financially to a program or you will never do it.  I want people who are committing to this process.   

If for any reason your life blows up and you can’t complete the program, reach out to Kira and we will put you in the next round or put your money towards another program.

This program is for single women, hetero or queer who wants to do the work towards a healthy & happy partnership.  You need to be 21 and over.

Come on and join us! ALL SESSIONS ARE RECORDED.

You should be able to make the Sunday workshops they are at 2 pm EST and you can check out the recordings for Tuesdays.  Plus, if I have enough people I will add a second Tuesday call at a time that works for other countries.  All things are possible.

Workshops are on Saturdays & Sundays 11 am EST – 4 :30 pm EST. 

You don’t need anything too special. You will just need access to a computer that has a camera with decent internet connection for our video calls.

Of course you are nervous!  That is 100% normal. 

Getting real with ourselves and vulnerable with others can feel super scary!  But let me tell you this.  Getting real and getting vulnerable are crucial for all relationships, so why not practice in a completely safe and supportive space.  

You will be encouraged to speak up, connect, share, laugh, open you mind, dig deep…all of it!  But that is how you walk away a better person!

Not at this time.  If there is enough interest, I’ll set-up a version for men.

Email Kira at kira@reinventingdating.com and let her know you would love to see this program for men.

Yes!  You have to be 21 to attend the program.

Don’t take my word for it! (anyone get that Reading Rainbow reference?)

Go take a look at all of my success stories here.

But if you show up & do the work…it will absolutely help.

HAVE MORE QUESTIONS?
Email Kira at kira@reinventingdating  or text her at 608-720-4099. 

That’s my real number!

I will answer in within 24 hours!

come check out MY monthly workshop

THIRD SATURDAY of
every month!