CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE IN FOUR WEEKENDS.

Welcome to the best science-backed online program for single women to get in relationships
you actually want.

LOVE RESET GROUP INTENSIVE

The science-backed group weekend workshop to reset your skills & mindset on dating & get in relationship you actually want.

AWESOME Former grad, KAYLA —>

At Love reset you will learn:

ANATOMY OF MODERN PARTNERSHIPS

Stop wasting your time swiping & texting hoping that the next random person will be “the one”. We can do better than that for your LIFE PARTNER! Stack the deck in your favor by learning who you’re attracted to & why, how your attachment style plays a role, who is a good match for you & how to spot them in real life.

date smarter & with confidence

It’s amazing how much easier dating can feel when you have a plan! Using my proven healthy dating timelines, mindsets, safety tips, scripts, questions, after-date assessments, & more, it makes it a ton easier to date with confidence & to not get stuck where you shouldn’t be.

CREATE relationships you actually want

What’s the point of having a relationship if it’s mediocre at best or even terrible. That’s lonelier than being single. Learn how to build a partnership from day one that is full of trust, respect, honesty, & joy where BOTH of you feel loved every single day. That’s the whole point.

We all want love.
But NO ONE wants to date to get it.

BECAUSE YOU & I BOTH KNOW, DATING KINDA SUCKS.

But it is even rougher if we struggle with:

Is modern dating even worth it?

But it's even rougher if we struggle with:

Is modern dating even worth it?

Healthy relationships & love can absolutely change your life.

BUT The keyword here is “Healthy” & most of us have no idea how to date & create a healthy relationship.

BUT The keyword here is “Healthy” & most of us have no idea how to date & create a healthy relationship.

But I do, because I was you

In addition to having coached singles all the way from San Diego to Singapore since 2007 (plus being a positive psychology practitioner & professional certified coach to boot!), I am also well-versed in the not-so-fabulous art of being really fucking single.

When I was actually dating (if we could call it that), the moment I caught feelings I would bend myself into a pretzel just hoping that if I became what I thought they wanted they would love me and stay FOOORRREEEEVVVERRRRR!!! Spoiler alert. They didn’t. 😂

After my Dad got sick in 2014, it woke me up that the only person who was going to change my relationship status, was me.  

So I stopped doing all the weird shit that women are  told we should do, and put everything I had researched into practice.  Later that year, I met my incredible husband, Danny, even though I was 41 years old, in my hometown of less than 5,000 & at my heaviest weight. 

Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018👇
Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018--->

But I do, because I was you

In addition to having coached singles all the way from San Diego to Singapore since 2007 (plus being a positive psychology practitioner & professional certified coach to boot!), I am also well-versed in the not-so-fabulous art of being really fucking single.

When I was actually dating (if we could call it that), the moment I caught feelings I would bend myself into a pretzel just hoping that if I became what I thought they wanted they would love me and stay FOOORRREEEEVVVERRRRR!!! Spoiler alert. They didn’t. 😂

After my Dad got sick in 2014, it woke me up that the only person who was going to change my relationship status, was me.  

So I stopped doing all the weird shit that women are  told we should do but sells our souls, and put everything I had researched into practice.  Later that year, I met my incredible husband, Danny, even though I was 41 years old, in my hometown of less than 5,000 & at my heaviest weight. 

Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018👇
Kira & Danny getting married in mexico in 2018--->
SUCCESS STORIES

"Why didn't I do this sooner?"

"I think of all the YEARS I spent reading self-help articles, bitching to friends about my love life, and stumbling through the dating world on my own and I cringe, because in less than six months, Kira gave me all the life-changing tools I needed to build a healthy relationship."
Sara, OH

Welcome to the Reinventing Dating Program

The most comprehensive online group program for single women to learn the mindsets & skills to date with intention & confidence.

 

Welcome to the Reinventing Dating Program

The most comprehensive online group program for single women to learn the mindsets & skills to date with intention & confidence.


4 Monthly Weekend Intensives

4 Monthly Weekend Intensives

One weekend a month we dig in!  

  • We learn the information, skills, & mindsets through LIVE fun interactive video workshops
  • We talk it out as a group in discussion times, 
  • We practice skills so we feel more comfortable in real life, 
  • At the end of the weekend, we will play a game show to solidify what you learned.

*ALL WORKSHOPS ARE RECORDED IF FOR ANY REASON YOU HAVE TO MISS ONE.

A Private Community for in between Intensives

To have access to Kira & the community in between our workshops.

Bring your questions, get extra resources, join the discussion & make the most of the experience.

Heads up: The community is in facebook. I don’t love facebook but it is the only place I can really get people to show up. Not a fb fan? I encourage you to create an account only for the course so you get to access the community & not everything else.

Action Steps & Real Life Application

Who cares what you learn if you never actually apply it? 

Which is why after every weekend intensive, you will be given mini challenges to apply what you learned over the month.

As the program progresses, we will have fun challenges, checklists, & scavenger hunts to practice skills & meet new people! In real life! Where love freakin’ exists!

Because information does not create transformation, application does.

Your Own Private Portal

Your Own Private Portal

Need to listen to the replay? 

Get bonus resources to learn more? 

Check out TV & Movie recommendations on the monthly topic?

I keep it super easy to be able to access all recordings, bonus workbooks, playlists, meditations, and more in your portal so you can find anything quickly & easy.

Welcome Gift!

Welcome Gift!

Who doesn’t love getting prezzies in the mail? 

You will receive a fun welcome package full of gifts to support you in this process. 

 

SUCCESS STORY

"This work will change every facet of your life"

“This work will change every facet of your life – yes, it will change your romantic relationships but it will change how you show up in every relationship….for the better.”
Amanda, PA
WEEKEND 1 - HEALTHY LOVE BASICS
NOVEMBER 11 & 12, 2023
11 AM EST - 4:30 PM EST

Let’s make sure we’re all talking the same language & understand what love & healthy relationships are, what to expect, & how to get them.

You will learn:

  • What Love Actually is (and what you’re confusing it with) plus how to actually get it & keep it.
  • History of Dating & Relationships (to see how we ended up here & where to go from here.)
  • Stages of Relationships (and why most of us don’t get past #2).
  • Needs vs Wants in Relationships so you know what is fair to ask for and to expect.
  • Red, yellow, & green flags to notice while dating and meeting people.
  • Healthy mindsets for love to go in open-minded & open-hearted.

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, HEATHER—>

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, HEATHER 👆

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, DIANE 👆

WEEKEND 2 - HOW YOU WOrk
DECEMBER 9 & 10, 2023
11 AM EST - 4:30 PM EST

How you learned to love, what you need, who's a good match for you, because it's different for everyone.

You will learn:

  • How you learned to love and what’s helping & what isn’t.
  • Your attachment style – how it shows up & how to date other attachment styles.
  • Your Key Values and Strengths and what you bring to the relationship
  • Dealbreakers and Relationship Styles so you can spot a great match
  • Who should get power in your life & who shouldn’t.
  • Boundaries & when to share your story for best connection & success.

<—-AWESOME FORMER GRAD, DIANE

WEEKEND 3 - REWIRE YOUR BRAIN
january 13 & 14, 2024
11 AM EST - 4:30 PM EST

Over our lifetime after hurt & disappointment we can learn some unhelpful beliefs & mindsets that can keep us single. This weekend is ALL about rewiring our brain to feel confident & open to love.

  • Feeling worthy of healthy love & partners – practicing deep self-worth & self-compassion.
  • Work WITH your inner critic – so they are helping, not hurting.
  • Limiting Beliefs & Thinking Traps – that are holding you back and sabotaging you without you even knowing it.
  • Processing Emotions & Healthy Coping Skills – so you can keep yourself calm & making decisions out of love, not fear.

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, AMY—>

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, AMY👆

AWESOME FORMER GRAD, SARAH👆

WEEKEND 4 - DATE LIKE YOU MEAN IT
February 17 & 18, 2024
11 AM EST - 4:30 PM EST

Real & helpful resources to date with integrity & intention. Plus, be able to spot your person in real life!

You will learn:

  • How to meet people in real life – Spoiler Alert: you will have to leave your house. 😂
  • Full 3 month healthy dating walkthrough –  with thoughtful & helpful first dates ideas, questions, guidelines, strategies, sex timelines & safety tips so you feel confident and ready!
  • Pre-date strategies and post-date assessments for intentional success.
  • How to have collaborate & have tough conversations so everyone feels good.
 

<—AWESOME FORMER GRAD, SARAH

ON THE FINAL WEEKEND WE WILL TAKE ALL THAT WE HAVE LEARNED
AND PUT IT INTO A DIGITAL BLUEPRINT

EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO DATE WITH SUCCESS:

  • Dating timelines – what pace makes sense for everyone involved & best chance of success.
  • Dating scripts for awkward conversations – like how to “Define the Relationship”, ask for what you need, & set important boundaries.
  • Great first date template – how to have fun, stay safe, & questions for best information.
  • Great questions & date ideas – to make the most of your time together.
  • Pre-date pep-talks & meditations to get you going in with the best mindset.
  • Post-date assessments – to look for the important info you may have missed.
  • Your personal dating strategy with challenges, checklists, and ideas on where to meet new people.

ON THE FINAL WEEKEND WE WILL TAKE ALL THAT WE HAVE LEARNED
AND PUT IT INTO A DIGITAL BLUEPRINT

EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO DATE WITH SUCCESS:

  • Dating timelines – what pace makes sense for everyone involved & best chance of success.
  • Dating scripts for awkward conversations – like how to “Define the Relationship”, ask for what you need, & set important boundaries.
  • Great first date template – how to have fun, stay safe, & questions for best information.
  • Great questions & date ideas – to make the most of your time together.
  • Pre-date pep-talks & meditations to get you going in with the best mindset.
  • Post-date assessments – to look for the important info you may have missed.
  • Your personal dating strategy with challenges, checklists, and ideas on where to meet new people.

what past participants are saying...

HERE’S WHAT’S INCLUDED IN THE PROGRAM

4 GROUP WEEKEND INTENSIVES

Done live with Kira & the group once a month from Nov – Feb.

PRIVATE PORTAL

To access all the work before, during, & after the program ends.

LIFE-CHANGING RESULTS

You will walk away smarter & more prepared than 99% of people dating.

INCREDIBLE COMMUNITY

Of other smart & kind women who are also working on themselves.

PRIVATE FB GROUP

A private group to stay connected with Kira & community between weekend intensives.

How to Join!

Step 1

Scroll down & choose between a four month payment plan or pay in full for a nice discount. You will get an email immediately to confirm your spot.

STEP 2

On November 5th, you will get an email with all the info to get the most out of this experience.  Also watch for your package in the mail.

STEP 3

The program officially starts the weekend of  November 11 & 12, 2023. The call times are 11 am EST – 4:30 pm EST

How to Join!

Step 1

Scroll down & choose between a four month payment plan or pay in full for a nice discount. You will get an email immediately to confirm your spot.

STEP 2

On November 5th, you will get an email with all the info to get the most out of this experience.  Also watch for your package in the mail.

STEP 3

The program officially starts the weekend of  November 11 & 12, 2023. The call times are 11 am EST – 4:30 pm EST

Next round starts November 11 & 12, 2023

 

let's get you
some love.

GRAB YOUR SPOT TODAY FOR:

Have a question? Text Kira at 608-720-4099 (that’s my real number)

“Wait, I Have a Question!”

You’re in luck: Answers are my specialty.
Here are some of the most common questions I get asked about the program

All sales are final and non-refundable.  I stand behind this program 1000000%.  I am going above and beyond to make this easy to stay motivated and finish. 

I think it important to commit mentally and financially to a program or you will never do it.  I want people who are committing to this process.   

If for any reason your life blows up and you can’t complete the program, reach out to Kira and we will put you in the next round or put your money towards another program.

This program is for single women, hetero or queer who wants to do the work towards a healthy & happy partnership.  You need to be 21 and over.

Come on and join us! ALL SESSIONS ARE RECORDED.

You should be able to make the Sunday workshops they are at 2 pm EST and you can check out the recordings for Tuesdays.  Plus, if I have enough people I will add a second Tuesday call at a time that works for other countries.  All things are possible.

Workshops are on Saturdays & Sundays 11 am EST – 4 :30 pm EST. 

You don’t need anything too special. You will just need access to a computer that has a camera with decent internet connection for our video calls.

Of course you are nervous!  That is 100% normal. 

Getting real with ourselves and vulnerable with others can feel super scary!  But let me tell you this.  Getting real and getting vulnerable are crucial for all relationships, so why not practice in a completely safe and supportive space.  

You will be encouraged to speak up, connect, share, laugh, open you mind, dig deep…all of it!  But that is how you walk away a better person!

Not at this time.  If there is enough interest, I’ll set-up a version for men.

Email Kira at kira@reinventingdating.com and let her know you would love to see this program for men.

Yes!  You have to be 21 to attend the program.

Don’t take my word for it! (anyone get that Reading Rainbow reference?)

Go take a look at all of my success stories here.

But if you show up & do the work…it will absolutely help.

HAVE MORE QUESTIONS?
Email Kira at kira@reinventingdating  or text her at 608-720-4099. 

That’s my real number!

I will answer in within 24 hours!

come check out MY monthly workshop

THIRD SATURDAY of
every month!